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Catherine Mulvale
Jan 283 min read
Role-Playing for the WIN!Â
Exciting news! Mom is entering an art competition!!! We’re not sure when it is, or where, or who else is competing, but who cares? Those...
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Catherine Mulvale
Dec 7, 20244 min read
Christmas Magic on the Front Step
When I went out this morning with a pair of secateurs and a beige rubber pail, I was expecting to spend a couple of hours doing a holiday...
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Catherine Mulvale
Sep 30, 20245 min read
Location. Location. Location. Find the ideal community hub.
I’d like to say I was oh so clever and strategically chose the ideal location for Mom when I selected her assisted care home. Truth be...
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Catherine Mulvale
Sep 10, 20243 min read
Just this once, I wish I was alone
It brings me no comfort to know that I am one of many of my friends who are dealing with parents who have dementia. In this instance, I...
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Catherine Mulvale
Aug 22, 20244 min read
The joys and jolts of repetition
Repetition is a given when dealing with dementia. How you are affected is a choice. The torture of being asked the same questions over...
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Catherine Mulvale
Aug 8, 20244 min read
Accept help. Better yet, go looking for it.
Going it alone when caring for a person with dementia is a bad idea. Trust me. I’ve tried. I can say with absolute confidence that...
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Catherine Mulvale
Jun 27, 20244 min read
Protecting memories... and ourselves
The best things in life are the people we love, the places we’ve been, and the memories we’ve made along the way. – Unknown Memories are...
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Catherine Mulvale
Jun 20, 20244 min read
The one question I ask myself every day….
Every day at some point, I ask myself: if Mom died tomorrow, would I be comfortable with the decisions I had made regarding her life and...
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Catherine Mulvale
Jun 12, 20243 min read
Medications -- miraculous and menacing
Medications are miraculous. This is undeniable. When used appropriately, they can protect us from and relieve us of pain, illness,...
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Catherine Mulvale
May 30, 20242 min read
Hold on -- it's going to be a bumpy ride!
Who likes roller coasters? C’mon, be honest. The anticipation? The rush? Chugging slowly up and up ...and up and then plunging through a...
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Catherine Mulvale
May 27, 20244 min read
Trading places -- being cared for and then providing care
Once upon a time, I had a 10 per cent chance of surviving a life-threatening infection. In a matter of hours, I went from experiencing...
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Catherine Mulvale
May 8, 20244 min read
Lying - deception or compassion?
When I was a little girl, I stole a wedding ring from the neighbor’s house. Mom noticed the ring on my finger as soon as I came home....
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Catherine Mulvale
May 7, 20244 min read
When YOU become the health expert
I've had a lot of experience being a patient advocate. It is a great big, hairy, scary responsibility. It’s also one of the most...
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Catherine Mulvale
May 6, 20243 min read
Deja boo hoo -- dementia x 2
This is the second time I've shared the dementia journey with someone I love. It’s a long and painful road that has been punctuated with...
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